Do you ever try to do things to make yourself “better”?
When your reason for doing something is to try to change or fix yourself, it’s sending a signal to the universe that there’s something wrong with you, which is why when you do that, you feel like you’re the problem.
It’s because you’re acting like you are.
You’re constantly reinforcing the belief that you need to change or fix yourself because your actions are suggesting that that’s true.
But when you change your intention from trying to fix yourself to taking action from a place of desire, the energy that you put into it will come from a totally different place.
It isn’t going to create that feedback loop that makes you feel like shit about yourself.
You stop feeling like you’re the problem when you stop trying to fix yourself.